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It was a good read, even though it took me a year to finish it, but that has more to do with my penchant for never finishing what I start than it says anything about the book.

At the end of the book, and especially the epilogue, I felt disappointed. Not in the story per se, but in the fact that it didn’t answer any questions I have about my own life, about the player lifestyle vs. falling in love, about chasing notches vs. real relationships, and it just made me question some of my current relationships more.

All it did was force me to ask more questions of my own life. Questions that I’ve of course already been asking and been unsure about:

Where am I going?

What am I doing?

Where is this thing going with the two different girls in London who I’ve managed to string along via once-a-month Facebook chats for over a year? One of whom I really like by the way…

What will become of the whole Ghetto Club thing? We still stay in touch and she’s obviously still in love with me.

I too have all of these future travel plans: countries I want to see, cultures I want to experience, exotic girls I want to meet, but what am I really look for in that? What will become of any of that?

Is there an end goal or are there only experiences? Memories that fade with time?

What do I want out of life?

Who do I want to be?

I couldn’t help but read the epilogue of A Dead Bat In Paraguay and want to know even more. Obviously Roosh has carried on and continued to travel with occasional stints back home since the writing of this book. From what I can tell from his blog, he seems more comfortable with the traveling, nomadic life now than he did during his first trip to South America.